Sunday, November 16, 2014

(Weekend Getaway) Sonya's Garden

I remember how I planned a surprise cruise dinner for Love on our 5th monthsary.  Seemed like a good idea to try the Manila Bay Cruise (Manila Bay! What was I thinking?).  Actually, the cruise was not that bad, the food was so-so, the yacht was nice, the city lights were quite the sight and we couldn't see the dirty waters since it was a night cruise.  It was turning out to be a not-so-bad romantic dinner but then it was the fellow passengers that ruined our night.  They were foreigners, I won't mention the nationality and what they did but it was irritating.  Good thing we also booked an overnight stay at Sonya's Garden in Tagaytay for the weekend to save the monthly celebration.


These days Love and I are really fascinated with gardens.  She has a small one in her condo (alive but barely :-)) and I'm growing my own flowers and plants in our own garden in Cavite.  This hobby all started after our Sonya's Garden visit. I just want to replicate it someday.

The rooms have a rustic design.  They cater to varying number of guests per room.  They have no air conditioners and TVs but the cold breeze in Tagaytay took care of that and as for activities there are lots to do for an overnight stay, we didn't even need to leave the compound.










Here are the activities we did:

Tour the compound and gardens
I'm really bad at describing places using words (so much for writing a novel).  It's so much better when you're there than the pictures.





Proposal Garden
The proposal garden is the first garden that Sonya allowed public access.  The first one was for a proposal.

Eat organic food
They have, I believe, three restaurants inside the compound.  One is open for walk-ins and the other one is near the rooms for checked-in guests only.  We didn't see the third one but I believe they hold wedding receptions there also. 
For checked-in guests
They grow their own veggies, fruits and herbs.  The salad was delicious and we drank different herbal teas (Tarragon and Mint as far as I remember) and juices. They also serve pasta and dessert.  The live entertainment was also unique, Lolo with his guitar singing kundimans (infinitely better than those in the yacht).
Their salad ingredients


Make your own salad
Tarragon Tea

They also have a Panaderia but we didn't get to visit it since there're so many people buying all the time (must be tasty).

Couples massage at Sonya's Garden Spa
This was the highlight of the trip.  We like to get massages from time to time and for this one, we chose the Sonya's signature massage.  How would I describe it?  It was soft and hard, and there were new techniques I haven't felt before. It's really worth trying out.  They also offer facials and the like.









Jog around outside the compound
We took advantage of the fresh air from Tagaytay and went jogging early the next morning.  It was also in preparation for our Milo 5K race (Love needed some training).  Beats jogging in Ayala Tringle or BGC.  We also saw the plantation for Island Rose but it was closed off and covered.

Shop for souvenirs, plants and organic products
They have it all, from herbal plants, organic household sprays, scented candles to organic food.  A haven for green advocates and environmentalists.

Just relaxed
Whether it's in our room, the restaurant or the benches in the garden, the relaxing mood of the place just calms us down.  We took pictures of the flowers we liked in the hope of replicating it in our own garden.

Here are some of the flowers that caught our attention.  I can't name them though.


  
  

  

  

  

If you're looking for a peaceful place to soul search or reflect and see lots of different flowers, crops and plants, this is the place to do it.   That or climb a mountain (no spa).

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

(Wedding) The Initial Discussion

Love and I were still high after our engagement and were receiving congratulations from our family and friends when my Mom suggested that we plan the wedding already and push for February 2015.  My Mom is based in the U.S. and is going back home late February for her high school reunion.

Love didn't really mind and she just went from newly engaged to full blown wedding planner in an instant. We decided to give it our best effort to book all the needed locations and suppliers but if we can't, then we'll do it on  a later date.

While in Batanes we worked on these things (we created a wedding excel file :-)):

The Date
The last two weekends of February became our target dates.  Since we were restricted it was an easy decision.

The Location
All of Love's siblings got married in Pampanga, her home town.  She asked me if it was OK to do it there.  I said I have to confirm with my family but for me, I was OK with it for the following reasons:
  • Cavite doesn't really have a nice wedding location.  Well, except for Tagaytay but that wasn't an option.
  • Getting married in Manila I believe, is a lot more expensive.
  • Booking for a wedding in 4 months might be possible in Pampanga.

The Church and Reception
Since it was her home town and she's the bride, she gets to chose the church and reception venues. We decided to check out her top 3 choices.

1.  Xevera Chapel - The Country Garden 
                

2.  Chancery - King's Royale Promenade

3.  Clark Chapel 2 - Grand Palazzo Royale
                



The Budget
I won't get into specifics about our budget but I can say with absolute confidence that any couple's initial budget will inflate!  About 25% at least.  We agreed on our initial budget then.  Since it's just four months it's a little tight, good thing there's our 13th month pay to look forward to.

The Suppliers 
I won't include the prices as to not ruin the surprise for aspiring couples.  
  • Caterer
  • Photo and video coverage
  • Cake
  • Lights and sounds
  • Choir/band
  • Florist
  • Wedding gown 
  • Groom's suit
  • Entourage dress rentals
  • Wedding rings
  • Make-up artist (I can't believe the amount women pay for their make-up)
  • Accommodations
  • Invitations
  • Tokens and giveaways
  • Bridal car
  • Day coordinator
  • Photo booth
  • Booze... errr... wine.

Number of Guests
"150?".  I initially suggested.  We'll share the guests that we'll invite from our old company (where we met) then divide the remaining by two and invite our own.  Sounds good at the start but like our budget, the number of guests also inflated.

The Entourage
From our experience on attending weddings we made an initial list of the entourage titles we need to fill. We agreed that all male will come from my side and all female will come from her.
  • The Primary Sponsors (we decided 5 pairs)
  • The Best Man
  • The Maid of Honor
  • Candle Sponsors (pair)
  • Veil Sponsors (pair)
  • Cord Sponsors (pair)
  • Groomsmen (2)
  • Bridesmaids (2)
  • Flower Girls (we decided 3 girls)
  • Ring Bearer
  • Bible Bearer
  • Coin Bearer (there's also a rosary bearer and cross bearer but we didn't know that then)

Most of our friends told us that 4 months will be tight and stressful but we're both IT professionals and we're used to deadlines and crunch time work.  I pray and hope we execute great as well.